"Looking For True Love" This card was designed to help teens understand how relationships can develop into intimacy so quickly and why they so often fail. It shows how to develop a committed relationship. A proven piece that has been successfully used in classrooms, church settings and counseling sessions.

Text on the inside: Sometimes it seems like we live in a lonely world. Everywhere you turn you see people searching for that someone who will truly love them unconditionally, and hopefully rescue them from their loneliness. These feelings often cause us to become impatient and want to move relationships along more quickly to deeper levels of committment. It is not surprising that we find ourselves sexually involved with others we know very little about. We allow ourselves to become completely vulnerable with someone who has no real committment to us. In a moment's passion someone may tell you they're in love with you but walk away in the cold light of morning. Before we give ourselves away sexually we need to allow time to get to know each other and there needs to be genuine committment that only comes in marriage. [chart rating different levels of committment] When you give yourself sexually to someone you are giving away, perhaps, your greatest gift. It is yourself you are giving. Save your greatest gift for the one that vows before family, friends, and God to love and cherish you for the rest of their life.